January 20, 2020

I was talking with a female friend recently who just entered into a new relationship with a man. How they met each other was unplanned but happened at a very special, fortuitous event. They are both basking in the a...

September 7, 2019

It’s spring 2009 in Portland, Oregon. My partner, David, and I are nestled close under the covers with a laptop on our shared lap. It’s pitch black in our room except for the light pulsating from the screen.

We are w...

August 14, 2019

People seeking relationship help come to therapy thinking one of three things: (1) they think they are doing something wrong or feel they need to work on their personal issues, (2) they voice complaints about their...

February 1, 2018

Here's my third video in a new series I'm calling "Therapy Under Five." It's done Q&A style—in each video I read a question I've received and offer some of my thoughts from a process-oriented or depth-oriented persp...

How do we shift from a phase of unity and harmony in our relationships to embracing diversity? How do we be our true selves with another person who is different from us?

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